I felt challenged to find a good closing post for this week. I’ve had several ideas flit in and out of my brain, like last night’s dream – what a doozy! But I decided to hold that for another day.
Today I thought I would talk about some of the good things that actually came out of my divorce. It may have taken me three years post separation to get here, but here I landed ready to let more go from that destructive time in my life.
One of the best things to come about over the last three years was reconnecting with some very close friends that I lost touch with as a result of my previous relationship. It’s funny, when you’re in the thick of things, you don’t realize what you may have sacrificed along the way. But this past year or so I made a conscience effort to rebuild relationships that meant a lot to me and it has made all the difference. Included on (in?) that list of relationships are Shannon, Brett, Dave and Jen. I have truly missed them.
Another positive outcome are the people that have come into my life as a result of that life changing event. People I might not have met otherwise. First up, Jeanene – yes, the Jeanene you have read a lot about in this space. She became one of the best parts of my recovery and a great friend. I will be forever grateful for that.
Next there is Robb, my beloved friend that I met volunteering at the library. He is more introverted than I am, and he has the kindest soul (though I think he would disagree with me). He is my “Netflix and Chill” friend, my talk ad nauseum about books friend and I am glad he has a part in my life.
And then there is Jake – lovable, full of life Jake who I fell into an easy friendship with because of his endearing attitude. He has been a bright spot-on a cloudy day for me. Ironically, we are about 20 years apart and both Aquarians which makes for an interesting relationship in the best possible ways.
I also need to thank Rick and Mary for their unwavering support and advice. Some of the best people I have ever known.
Lastly, I need to give a special shout out to my therapist – Dr. Miller. She has been a godsend and it would have probably taken me longer to recover if I hadn’t found her. I will be eternally grateful for her guidance through one of the roughest periods in my life.
As always, I have nothing but love for my parents, my sisters (Lori and Colleen) and my friend Rory, who were there throughout it all.
I am sure I am missing some well-deserved mentions and if I am, please scold me appropriately. I just wanted to take a moment an express gratitude for the good that has come into my life in the last three years.
And I would like to encourage all of you to take a moment and list the people and/or events that have had a positive impact in your world. It’s a great way to lift your spirits.
My Lemons My Lemonade 