I have been dreading today. Today would have been my 26th wedding anniversary. I’d like to forget that but, you know, when you’re married for 22 years (as of 2018) it’s going to take a while for that to happen 🤷♀️.
Then this popped up in my Facebook memories today (from 2020):
“I would like you all to join me in not celebrating the most unimportant day of my life (formerly known as my wedding anniversary). No gifts or cards required, just the knowledge that you enjoy this spectacularly unimportant day in my life is all I need 😁😁😁.”
Citation = Me 🥰
And I thought “that’s the type of anniversary I should be celebrating…”. So, I’m taking back today and officially declaring it the Most Unimportant Day in my history. No f🤬🤬ks will be given, no other acknowledgement of that gigantic asshole and his duplicitous whore (Sorry I couldn’t help myself; I just love those descriptors 😆😆😆) going forward. Maybe I’ll even buy a special treat for myself 😊.
That is how these anniversaries should be celebrated, especially if you’re the aggrieved former partner. Rise out of the dread and take back your day! Celebrate how inconsequential the day of your former anniversary is!
This is how I choose to acknowledge this September 14th going forward 🍾🥂.
So, My Lovelies, if you find yourself dreading a particular day due to someone else’s behavior, make a conscious decision to celebrate your wonderfulness on that day. You will not regret it 🥰.
Meanwhile, I’m off to calendar this new celebration in my phone for next year.
💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
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